Women Corner

How do you know when he’s into you?

August 23rd, 2009 |

A lot of women play the guessing game when it comes to a man’s true feelings. So just how can you tell if he’s into you?

Is he calling more than usual?
The easiest way to know a guy isn’t into you is if he doesn’t call. You can of course rationalize that he’s busy with work or maybe that his long lost sister is even in town for the first time in years. The fact is however is that if he’s not calling you, he’s simply not interested.

If he’s spending all his free time with you
If you seem to have to fight to make an appointment in the man in question’s schedule then its unlikely he sees you guys as anything really serious. The real truth is that if a guy is interested then he will go out of his way to find excuse after excuse to spend time with you. If a guy tells you over and over that he really wants to see you but for whatever reason he simply doesn’t ever seem to come through then don’t just take him on his word. His actions will prove a lot more.

If he’s using words like “we” and “us”
If a man sees you as a part of his immediate or long-term future then he will make it known when he talks about his plans. Even if he doesn’t come out and say” “when we get marred…” or “when we have kids…” (It might be kind of strange if he did) he might still be thinking about it. All you have to do is pay attention to how he phrases certain things to know if he’s really thinking about long-term plans with you.

If he’s considerate

Always being courteous and opening doors. Any man who puts you first and foremost and is honestly concerned with how you are feeling is definitely interested.

If he’s not into the games
is he playing games with you? Does he make you wait for his text responses or does he wait forever to return calls? Guys who are really into you wont make you wait.

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