Women Corner

Being cheated on is one of the worst things a woman can go through, especially if you thought the relationship was built on solid trust and thought it had the potential to go somewhere. Unfortunately far too many women have had their hearts broken by cheating men. There are always signs that – if paid attention to – are dead giveaways that he’s up to no good.

1) Is your spouse or partner is coming home later from work than usual? If he goes for 3 years without a shred of overtime and all of a sudden needs to put in an extra hours then there might be something going on. If there’s no extra money on his paycheck then you have your answer.

2) Typically guys, especially ones in committed relationships, don’t often take an hour or two to get ready for work or to “go out with the guys”. If he’s dressing up and wearing cologne just to “go play cards” or “watch the game” then you may want to start asking questions.

3) Are you getting the hang-up calls on the home phone? Is he taking his cell phone in the other room and not letting you hear his conversations? This is a pretty obvious sign that he doesn’t want you to overhear him, or find out who he’s talking to.

4) If your spouse or partner is suddenly uninterested in sex then they may be cheating. Many men say that the main reason they cheat in the first place is because of some sort of problem in the bedroom. If you go from fighting about sex every week to simply not having it anymore, there may be something going on.

5) Is he suddenly working out or trying to lose weight? What’s changed that he wants to start this now? It could be completely innocent, or he could be trying to look better for someone else.

There are many signs that a woman can easily identify that practically announce that their men are cheating. It should be pointed out that any of these signs alone isn’t a good enough indicator that your spouse or partner is actually messing around. However, if they begin to display several of these warning signs then it may be time to look a little deeper into where he’s going every day.