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    Sometimes it can be frustrating trying to catch the eye of a guy you like. With the correct approach and a little self-confidence any girl can learn how to get noticed more by guys. Try out a few of these time-tested methods and he’ll be dying to get your number in no time.

 More than anything else the first step to capturing a guys attention is self-confidence. Although there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, girls that seem more confident are noticed first by guys, with the timid self-conscious girls coming up a far second.  

 Unfortunately the world isn’t perfect and typical men respond first with their eyes. If you’re not dressed to impress when trying to meet guys, most times you’ll end up losing you chance to other girls that have dressed the part. You don’t need to go overboard with it, but guys like to see curves.

One of the most uncomfortable aspects of any first date is the uncomfortable silence when neither party has anything to talk about. Typically this is a sign that the date just isn’t working out. However, nervousness and apprehension can get the best of us all at times and could ruin a real chance at something special. We cant guarantee that the guy sitting across from you is the one, we can give you some really useful tips for avoiding that awkward silence on the first date.

 The biggest mistake most women make with new guys is clamming up. Girls, remember that it’s not just his job to entertain and woo you; it’s a two-way street. Come into the date with a real desire to get to know this person and don’t let any preconceptions get in your way of trying to have a good conversation.

Bad communication is a plague that can destroy a perfectly good marriage. Every once in a while you hear might hear a friend or colleague say something like: “Oh me and my husband NEVER fight.” This only means one of two things…that your friend has beaten incredibly short odds and ended up in a relationship that needs 0 upkeep, or she’s under the false impression that “silence” is golden in a relationship. It’s not. In fact silence in a relationship is a bomb waiting to blow up and divorce is typically the only rubble left over.

 How do I know if we’re stuck in the “Silent Rut”?

Have you and your husband had a fight within the last few months? If you haven’t then there may be a problem. Actually…have you and your spouse had ANY sort of meaningful discussion over the last few months? You may have disconnected somewhere. Maybe there was a point where one or both of you, either intentionally or unconsciously decided that to just stop talking instead of dealing with the shouting or negative criticisms that accompany heated arguments.

Being cheated on is one of the worst things a woman can go through, especially if you thought the relationship was built on solid trust and thought it had the potential to go somewhere. Unfortunately far too many women have had their hearts broken by cheating men. There are always signs that – if paid attention to – are dead giveaways that he’s up to no good.

1) Is your spouse or partner is coming home later from work than usual? If he goes for 3 years without a shred of overtime and all of a sudden needs to put in an extra hours then there might be something going on. If there’s no extra money on his paycheck then you have your answer.